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How do we actually choose our life-partner? How do we know when he's 'the one'?
It's pretty scary to get involved in relationships these days. With betrayals, insecurities, commitments stepping in.
Everything is breathtaking when you first start out, but in some relationships it's really depressing when everything soon dies out.
Some couples look so contented in their relationships from the outside, but when you look beneath, the truth maybe shocking. In some cases, relationships are entirely physical whereby it's a rarity that these people actually sit down to have a forthright conversation on any major issues going on in any of their lives. It's quite shocking to see either one actually approach other people to share their problems or emotional issues. Then what exactly are the partners there for? Just to have some kinky fun with?
Another case is when a couple are still together, just 'cos they've been together for sometime already, and they don't want to go through the hassle of finding another partner so they rather put up with the dying relationship. These kinda people can go for weeks without meeting each other. They are already used to the emptiness in the relationship. Usually in this cases, the other person isn't even aware that the relationship is dying in the first place. So the person who's getting bored of it all doesn't do anything to salvage the situation, and so what happens? Betrayal of trust.
As we start growing up, we realise our mistakes in choosing our partners. We eventually find out that it's not about how good looking he is, or the gifts he buys you that matters. It's about the depth of the relationship. If you both can actually sit down and talk about EVERYTHING under the sun other then just meeting to make out. When he's there for you when you're down. When he's there to give you a hug when you need it the most. When hearing his voice on the phone just perks up your day no matter how loathsome your day could have been before that. When you feel that the time you get to spend with them is never enough. When every goodbye hurts so much. When he's the one you want to be with when you're in pain. When he's the first person you want to share any good/bad news with.
It's when you can see your future just by looking at their eyes, just like how I see mine in his. =)
How do we actually choose our life-partner? How do we know when he's 'the one'?
It's pretty scary to get involved in relationships these days. With betrayals, insecurities, commitments stepping in.
Everything is breathtaking when you first start out, but in some relationships it's really depressing when everything soon dies out.
Some couples look so contented in their relationships from the outside, but when you look beneath, the truth maybe shocking. In some cases, relationships are entirely physical whereby it's a rarity that these people actually sit down to have a forthright conversation on any major issues going on in any of their lives. It's quite shocking to see either one actually approach other people to share their problems or emotional issues. Then what exactly are the partners there for? Just to have some kinky fun with?
Another case is when a couple are still together, just 'cos they've been together for sometime already, and they don't want to go through the hassle of finding another partner so they rather put up with the dying relationship. These kinda people can go for weeks without meeting each other. They are already used to the emptiness in the relationship. Usually in this cases, the other person isn't even aware that the relationship is dying in the first place. So the person who's getting bored of it all doesn't do anything to salvage the situation, and so what happens? Betrayal of trust.
As we start growing up, we realise our mistakes in choosing our partners. We eventually find out that it's not about how good looking he is, or the gifts he buys you that matters. It's about the depth of the relationship. If you both can actually sit down and talk about EVERYTHING under the sun other then just meeting to make out. When he's there for you when you're down. When he's there to give you a hug when you need it the most. When hearing his voice on the phone just perks up your day no matter how loathsome your day could have been before that. When you feel that the time you get to spend with them is never enough. When every goodbye hurts so much. When he's the one you want to be with when you're in pain. When he's the first person you want to share any good/bad news with.
It's when you can see your future just by looking at their eyes, just like how I see mine in his. =)
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